Friday, 17 June 2011

Introduction

This blog has been created with a view to share my or rather our feelings..........Uprising Spate is a blog which is dedicated to all the girls and women who want to share their feelings about their families, husband, children, workplace anything and every thing which they feel like.
Today I am going to tell you all about my self. I am a professional and a wife. Though I have done my Post graduation in Manageemnt but I am unable to manage my husbands behaviour towards me. He too, is a Professionally qulified employee in a decent organization.
However, some of the people around him who call them as his friends have brain washed him. He is into Multi Level Marketing (eg: AMWAY, ORIFLAME, etc) and thinks that he can make a lot of money out of it. They have told him that he can become a millionaire and can be retired without doing anything. If that would have been the case then every body walking on this Earth would have left their jobs and started this MLM. They have not explained him that this job requires a lot of People Skills and Selling Skills, which can be inculcated but one has to work hard for it.
My husband is unable to achieve his targets and he forces this nonsense upon me.
I have clearly said no to this nonsense, but his so called upline has not stopped from creating problems in our realtions. After every meeting when he comes back he has his idiotic ideas and he tries to force it on me.
I know the problem is with my husband but I can't make him understand how bad I feel about his behaviour and how the other people are governing him and his thinking. I wish I could explain him how important this time is for us.
Nothing comes for free and without hard work nothing is achieved.
If he really wants to succeed he has to focus on what he can do not on what others tell him to do.
I want to bring back my husband's self image back. I want him to be strong, successful and happy...................

4 comments:

  1. I welcome you all to share and contribute your thoughts and ideas. If you also have been a victim of MLM or any other issue then please write about it........:)

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  2. I can understand your frustration Smiley, but there is very little that you can do to change the 'man'. Maybe you can change your strategy: become supportive of his 'way'... don't become part of it... frustration from 'lack of success' might automatically steer him away from 'Amway'. Sometimes when wives insist on something, the men get even more attracted to the thing they are stopping him from - so try reverse psychology - they say it never fails! All the best :)

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  3. I think its a great start. We all have a lot of issues to deal with and require an outlet. Im sure this can be used for a lot of sharing and resolving issues. All tthe best!

    Vaishalli

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  4. Difficulties come when you don’t pay attention to life’s whisper.If you ignore the whisper, sooner or later you’ll get a scream.....Don't shriek yourself...its for all who are engaged in MLM......Open our eyes man life has many more things to do.......explore them!!!!

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